MEET LAURIE

Laurie works across the U.S., Israel and Canada. She is passionate about helping marriage-minded, Torah observant Jewish singles find their "bashert." Her approach is personalized and focused on each client as a special and unique individual. Trained as a Wellness Coach, subsequently as a Life Coach, then Dating Coach, Laurie brings her listening skills, insights and intuition to understand what your brain and heart desires. 

A graduate of Stern College for Women, RVT Real Estate School, Wellcoaches, and Coachville, Laurie has enjoyed several professions that all involved helping people towards achieving their goals.  With her extensive coaching background, she decided to fill a need in the community by becoming a full-time professional matchmaker and relationship coach.

Laurie works with many partners to help you identify potential match opportunities.   She collaborates with the Sholom Blatter group, Bashertnow.org, Partners in Shidduchim, various Whatsapp groups, and Saw You at Sinai, as well as independent matchmakers across the globe. Laurie approaches matchmaking from a traditional Jewish perspective, with sensitivity, compassion and confidentiality. Laurie is delighted to have brought other matchmakers on board to serve clients with exceptional personalized service.

LT from Brooklyn (coaching client):

Laurie helped me tremendously while I was dating my now husband. She gently provided alternative perspectives but was never pushy. She was calming and supportive throughout. She truly became someone I can trust.

DB from San Francisco: 

Not everyone who signs up to be a shadchan knows what they're in for, and many I have worked with over the years threw in the towel after failing to make a match. But Laurie is persistent and tenacious. Over the year that we worked together, she continuously put in a large amount of effort both directly with me and behind the scenes to keep things moving. The interaction was genuine; she followed through on every step and followed up after every date. Her guidance made our engagement a reality.

WS from California:

 Laurie is a terrific shadchan. She has a low-key, no-pressure approach, and takes great care with each of her clients. She regards the interview process seriously, spending time getting to know her clients and learning what is important to them. She has a discerning eye for profile coaching, immediately spotting small changes that enable you to present your “best self.” Laurie asks for feedback and uses the client’s input to refine matching.  She is eager to hear where you’re coming from and to meet you where you are. Working with Laurie has expanded my view on both dating and marriage, giving me a more open and nuanced perspective. 

WG from Ohio:

I felt so empowered after my meeting with Laurie. Her warmth made me feel like we'd always been friends and she displayed such genuine care in understanding what I'm looking for. I feel like she really believes in me, and knowing she's in my corner revives my faith in finding my happily ever after.

NS from Miami: 

I am so happy I met Laurie. I have worked with many matchmakers over the years, and she is by far the best! She is unbelievably positive, and cares so much about what she is doing. If you have the chance to work with her, grab it! 

RM from Los Angeles: 

Before my first date, I told Laurie I was nervous and did not know what to expect. I had dated before, yet for some reason, I was super anxious. I spoke to Laurie the night before my date and she told me it was normal to feel nervous. Then she told me to SMILE and be myself. She said, "You want him to be comfortable and feel good with you." Just those two simple tips allowed for a very smiley and smooth first date to flow into a second date! Laurie, I am so grateful to you for your advice. Just the act of smiling lit up my face (and his too) and changed the whole ambiance. Your coaching helped me mentally gear up for each meeting and I was able to be more relaxed, present and attentive to my date! Thank you for all your time, effort and help!

AB from Seattle: 

The Seattle Shadchan (Mrs. Young) takes the time to listen to your needs/desires in looking for one’s bashert.  She’ll also ask some of the tough questions to get one thinking about those needs/desires. 

When I’ve come to her with possibilities that I have found, she doesn’t hesitate to contact that person directly (or her references) to get a feel if there is an interest.

DS from Bellevue:

 I was re-entering the dating scene, having recently got divorced after being married for many years. I felt greatly reassured having access to Laurie and her wisdom (and sense of humor!). She helped guide me through this 'new' period in my life, was easygoing and super friendly to talk to, gave me excellent advice, and advised me on some tricky situations. (coaching client)

MN from Las Vegas: 

I would highly recommend Mrs. Laurie Young’s services. I came to her not feeling confident in myself or the matchmaking process. I now feel equipped with the proper tools to tackle dating and many of life’s challenges. If you’re in need of coaching, she should be your first choice.

AN from Vancouver: 

Throughout my time with the Seattle Shadchan, Mrs. Young has has been caring, personable, and committed. She invested much time and energy into learning about me and searching for good potential matches. When she finally found my match, she helped keep our match on track all the way to the chuppah. I am so appreciative of her sensitivity and wisdom during the process.

SK from LA: 

I've worked with Laurie before when she set me up with a client of hers. I don't remember how she connected with me, but I went out on a few dates with the guy and Laurie was really helpful and proactive between dates. I think she's the only official matchmaker I've had a positive experience with.